If you start picking certain aspects to tie with a person uniqueness, it is a never ending list. Each person has their own way to react, respond from the time of birth and in different stages of life. Uniqueness is a myth. Internally, everyone is the same. People strive to succeed in life. They earn to make the day better and their future better.
If I link a person’s characteristics with their uniqueness, I bet someone else in the world has the same traits. In every stage of life, we meet people who made an impact on our lives. We justify this impact as the uniqueness in them. We fail to understand it is us who are evolving and changing. This indirectly makes us find the different traits as unique features in them.
We want to be unique from others to step ahead. If we continue with that mindset, no one will match your level of mentality. No one will share your traits. You would feel that all others are just wasting their life. You have this special power which makes you so unique from others.
Each person has their own evils within. They paint themselves as someone different in front of others just to be unique. Why do we have to do this :
- “Your family does not support you, ah may be I have some problem let me re-adjust myself to be unique and better to them”
- “I have no friends, ah let me try to fit into a group by a make over to attract some”.
If we really want to be unique, we should acknowledge that we are complex humans. Treat ourselves the same way as a growing plant. A plant needs continuous nurturing. Its traits change and adapt according to the weather to become a strong flourishing tree. It is hard to acknowledge this but as I say in all of my writings, one day at a time. Give ourselves a 5 minute and just be us.
To me, not to be unique is blessing in disguise. No one to poke or no one to compete with, you are just competing with yourself.
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