How important is silence around this busy buzzing world. I hate Silence but at same time, if am with a person where silence also makes you happy then that is really beautiful.
Not many people can be kept queit. How shy or how introvert the person may be but only the closed ones know that this person cannot be stopped. Its so peacefull for once in a while to be in silence and be with you.
Achieving the happiness in silence with nothing being done beside sitting idle then you are no more dependent on anyone. Happiness comes first from you and then spreads to all. Cheer up, there are n number of things to be happy of. Just watch silently you will get atleast one thing to smile wholeheartedly.
Each person who lives a very basic life has an interesting chapter in their life which is just heroic, unimaginable or a forgotten tale. Being an ordinary in current life situation is highly difficult and upon that if people judge on that situation again worsens. But we forget the fact that any person living a simple life has a reason behind it.
Whatever may be a person’s mental state or situation now, how bad the person might be now, but there would have been a day when the person did a miraculous job in his life where they felt joyfull and happy Every ordinary , every bad person, every individual with any character is an extraordinary person with their own story to tell.
Never judge a person on the current state ,may be there are numerous conditions which drived to that state but who knows that person might be god to some one unknown or someone known some day behind which we never tell to anyone until it has to be told.
A smiling face and relieved feeling, thats an ordinary person being an extraordinary. Be an ordinary with an extra ordinary life in it. You are sad at moment , stressed at this moment let that be ,it wont last and may be thats a new chapter for your extra ordinary life.
By terming Future itself its equivalent of being clueless, but there are some paths which your mind automaticallly defines for like next 5 years minimum !!!
Life just gives you so many roads to take forward your journey, but we as a human being always choose the road which is always filled with dreams, filled with options , filled with least risks. But we everytime forget that , the more easy the road you think, the more test of your patience. May be thats why someone said choose the road which is less taken…
Go with the choice where least people have their opinion and your opinion becomes the road to many others. But when we choose the most used path, its filled with lots of opinions and along with it comes the objections based on different perspectives. When we talk about perspective its always confusing because one may be right in their perspective but at same time someone else can feel it totally wrong. So if a path is least chosen , the perspectives also remains least which means its your adventure.
Try to make your own adventure and not to fall to someone else adventure and then regret for not being different. Theoritically it seems quite simple, but when it comes to real life a lot of emotions, attachments , dreams , society , all of these just hit with each other in your mind and then just quit to take the path most taken because thats the safest way.
Never know if your future is good or bad but make your perspective in a way that whatever happens the opinions are less and you seem right to the rest of the world and create your own history in making !!
Giving this clueless future some rest and on to the next clueless adventure for tomorrow with lots of drama , tensions and confusions !!!
People say when you face any difficulty in life, thats a lesson taught and that we learn to be more stronger. Let me rephrase that, when you face any difficulty may be that person is defined to be able to tackle n number of difficulties and enlighten the path for themselves and also for the closed ones.
Each phase of your life from a kid to old age, we are being traumatized with hurdles or some with no hurdles at all still being traumatized of not getting hurdles. Nobody ever get satisfied with anything we get in life, everything we decide is meant to be as a lesson learnt or taught.
Each phase of your life, you meet plenty people who make you to take some extreme decisions and then just vanish. Another lesson learnt or is it taught. Every person we meet in life give us some reason to have belief in ourselves ,that we are capable of something but at same time if we do not recognise that same person can be the reason for your failure till the end of life.
Accept and expect life is not so smooth road where we will just learn good lessons and become wiser, there are some paths which we have to go through learning wierd and bad lessons that may be taught to some other person.
You never grow until you know that whatever happens is a lesson learnt or taught, but never fall in the gamble of lessons where you forget what actually you are meant to be.
I never get the meaning of selfless. Dictionary meaning implies you think more on other people’s interest than your own. But is that even possible for a person to be living his whole life selfless.
To decide not to follow your interest and apply some one else does mean that the person is bound to you and you are doing for them because you want them to do like that. How do you term that as selfless and is it not selfish for you to wish something they want , to be given by you.
A person always does or takes some decision for himself at first and then thinks of the effects of it. In these terms we cannot be selfless at all. Being selfless means you do not have your own identity and you want to build some one else identity just for no reason !!!
I do see a meaning for being selfless to a person you love the most , because you want them to happy . But its not okey if the other person has reverse wish and does not even care or respect on your selfless personality.
I love being selfish at some point where I can be at my decisions and be happy at my decisions . But at same time some times I feel , may be being selfless might be the ideal characteristics to get rid of all attachments , emotions , goals. Just getting happy for your deeds to others.
May be some day I find an answer to it or may be i do not but I will still not be okey with a person who just be selfless for no reason and do not have a self opinion on anything except others life.
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