Do you believe in fate/destiny?

The more accurate question would be, do I want to believe in fate or destiny !!! It is a hard pill to swallow. When do we ask this question. When life is smooth and all is well , no one dares to look at destiny or fate right !! It is always their smartness or hardwork at those times. But when things turn ugly in your life, you turn your face towards fate or destiny!!

I have never heard people speaking of good destiny or good fate. Somehow these words are attached to unlucky or sadness which I hate to the core. Why cannot people be well destined always right!!

So do i want to believe in fate or destiny. Yes i do !! Do i believe in it ?? Not sure because things turn ugly whatever you do if it’s situational then why blame the destiny or fate!!! I want to see life as a gift given, live it as it is and not tag it with destiny. If destiny decides where I or people need to be , then the world would have been a lot more bad place. At the end it is the choice you take decides your fate and not the fate deciding your choice.