Parents At My Age!!

What were your parents doing at your age?

Happily Married with kids and one of them writing now about it , still single and looking for the right partner 😁. I was born when my dad was my current age and my brother was born when my mom was my current age 😁😁.

I am a Millennial Kid or Lady 🤪. So I come under that nostalgia gang who always talk about how things have changed and worry about the future bla bla..! For my parents generation pattern I guess they got married a bit late. My Mom who was busy focusing on her career by completing her studies and targeting to have a job. My dad was the eldest kid who lost his father at the age where all his friends were dreaming of getting to a high class job. So both were in their own mental space where marriage would be the last option they would take. 

As I grew I would always get irritated and upset at how my parents are still a couple, what do they have in common (Not that they do not respect or love, the fantasy that a movie has given in a couple’s life was never seen. Also i never saw Dad and mom staying apart for even one day😀). But at this age now i understand why they are who they are (still get upset for whatsoever reason but of course they are my parents , moreover an individual with their choice of freedom ). My dad was piled up with responsibility at my age where I cannot imagine if i could take up that much stress. My mom was unaware of what family responsibility meant and the hurdles she would get in when job and family responsibility goes together.

Despite all these they have given all sorts of freedom to their extent and earned money well in a way that their kids do not have to worry or think about tension on earning to pay off loans.

So yeah my parents at my age were all in love with each other exploring the new hurdles , new drama !!

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