Whole life , every people live their daily life with one or the other fear.

Lets star this by talking about myself . When it comes to fear I should be the champion in it. The moment I need to make a decision, whether small or big, fear is the first thing that engulfs me.

How did it start? Ah, mm, I do not remember. What I do remember is I was a shy girl from the beginning. I feared people judging me 💭💭. How did I change into a talkative girl? I spoke to at least a countable number of people. Let me think, ah mm, I still do not remember. So this transitional phase is adulthood as most people turn themselves into a different person after a certain age. But what remained in me throughout was the fear of people judging me.

Oh that short little girl, see her i do not think she eats right.!!! Hey see that malnutrition girl there , poor thing parents are not raising her right .!!!!! What were these , yea these were the comments people whispering on me. To give more insight i was forever a lean girl but never disliked that in me nor my family. But every time, the whole world around me reminded me not to be happy. They suggested I should be sad about being lean.

And this story goes onward till adulthood, you hear one or the other comments on you and start ignoring those. But deep within your fear factor of people being judgmental about your weight , height or anything just stays.

The trauma which had been within is a blocker for almost all decisions which is being taken. Breaking the fear and accepting that you can’t do anything on others comments or yours, is a challenging task.

Fear within me has always been a villain. But, it is also my best factor to take the right decisions at the right time. Fear is good but not to the level where you see yourself as the problem !!!